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Wordless Wednesday: 36 Week Belly Comparison

At this point I can tell that Sarah was much bigger than Shelby. I also dropped around 36 weeks with Sarah and I am still carrying Shelby higher.

Packing our Birth Center Bags

With the girls I packed the clothes they would wear coming home from the hospital in my over night bag. I knew the hospital would provide a lot of the stuff we would need for baby, like wipes and diapers, blankets even a baby hat. But with a birth center birth we bring everything we need for mom and baby!

I already packed up the bag for Shelby. I can’t believe that she will be here in only a few weeks! With a birth center birth we will be going home within 4-6 hours after baby’s birth so we do not have to pack a lot. I’d rather be prepared just in case of a hospital transport, and be over packed then not have enough for us.

Baby’s Bag:

  • 2 outfits – one sleeper, one gown. The gown is the same one both my older girls wore.
  • 3 hats – small cream one is hat that will be placed on her head right after birth and depending on which outfit she wears home she will wear the matching hat.
  • binkies – probably wont need them but bringing them just in case.
  • thick blanket
  • swaddle blanket
  • diapers and wipes – We are using disposable diapers for the meconium stage.
  • baby wash/lotion
  • baby comb

Mommy’s Bag:

  • headband for labor/delivery to keep my hair out of my face
  • extra hair bands
  • hairbrush/tooth brush/tooth paste
  • chap-stick
  • deodorant
  • sweats for going home
  • pads
  • slippers
  • robe
  • sports bra
  • nursing tank
  • 2 pairs old undies
  • pair of socks

Extras

  • Camera Bag – will have iphone/ipad charger, camera charger, video recorder & charger
  • Baby Book
  • Pillow and boppy
  • Birth Binder
  • iPad

What did you pack? Anything else I’m forgetting?

Post Newborn Cloth Diaper Stash

I posted about what I have in my Newborn Diaper Stash. Weren’t those covers cute?

Now, for after the newborn stage I wanted to mostly go with OS (one size). These will go from around 10 pounds to 35 pounds. So basically will last until potty training.  I still would like to get about six more pockets but I am waiting to see which we like best before getting anymore. As of right now I have 21 pockets/AIO which is approximately three days worth of diapers.

2 POCKET -Bummis OS (8-35lbs)
1 POCKET -OS smartipants bubble gum pink (7-35lbs)
9 POCKET -OS BumGenius 4.0 (8-35lbs)
1 POCKET- OS Lotus Bumz pink monkey
1 POCKET- go green diaper OS Champ (7-40lbs)
1 POCKET – OS Babyland stars print (8-33lbs)
1 AIO – Swaddlebess OS (10-35) tweets
2 AIO – motherease size S (10-20lbs)
1 AIO – FuzziBunz Perfect Size Cloth Diaper, Butter, Size Small 7-18 lbs
1 AIO- OS GroVia owls
3 COVER- Bummis Wrap size s (8-15 lbs)
1 COVER -OS FLIP (8-35) pink

I received quite a few of these to test out which has been great. We can’t wait to use them on Shelby! My overall cost on what is above is only $133.

As or right now my look and feel my favorites are the Bum Genius. When I first started buying I thought I wanted hook and loop (velcro) but then decided that snaps will probably last longer so I am getting mostly snaps now.

Pregnancy Week 36

Hello 9 Months!

I can not believe we are in the home stretch! Now we count down the days until Shelby decides to make her entrance! I had both my girls at 39 weeks and I am kinda hoping Shelby does the same, but as my friend Tamra said, “God has picked the perfect day to be the baby’s birthday. Don’t rush it too soon”. She is absolutely right, as with both my older girls their birthdays are very special to me and I am anxiously waiting for Shelby’s Birth Day.

We had our ultrasound this past week to check on Shelby’s position and I knew we would get an approximate on her weight. I was surprised to hear she is weighing in at 6 pounds. I did not realize that she was already that big! She is in fact head down so all that www.spinningbabies.com stuff I was dong from weeks 33 to 35 worked!

I will admit it’s nice to hear from people that they can’ believe I’m due in a few weeks. I look so small, but baby girl is measuring perfectly!

Here are some of the pictures we got, they aren’t great but we can totally see that she is going to look just like her sisters! Just look at her cheeks!

And this is a potty shot. 3rd ultrasound confirming YES we are having a girl! I am getting sick of people saying “well what if she isn’t a girl?”

I still haven’t decided on when I will stop working, while my body aches afterwards, I kinda think all the walking  helps. It puts pressure with Shelby’s head on my cervix. The weather has still been beautiful and no reason for me not to work.

 

Your Baby in Week 36 of Pregnancy

Forget your aching back (and everything else!) by trying to focus on your baby, who is now six pounds and 20 inches long, with soft bones and cartilage to allow a safer journey through the exit door. Most of her systems (from circulatory to musculoskeletal) are ready for prime time, though her digestion system — which has done only practice runs so far — will kick into gear as she takes her first suckle at the breast or bottle.

My Newborn Cloth Diaper Stash

When I was trying to decide if I wanted to cloth diaper baby #3 or go the disposable diaper route it took me a long time to decide. I knew that with cloth diapers it would be more work, but not by much.

Even with my older kids when I’d change them, poopy diapers would be rinsed out in the toilet. Well the poo would be flushed. The only difference is instead of putting the diaper in a trash can we will put them in a pail and every other day throw the diapers in the washing machine and wash them.

From what I have heard you only doing an extra two or three loads of laundry a week. You don’t HAVE to use a specific diaper detergent, although I am using Bum Genius Detergent. But  a lot of people use plain/original Tide, which can also be used on the entire family’s laundry.

I have also been told that cloth diapers don’t smell nearly as bad as a wet disposable diaper. The reason disposables smell is the urine mixed with the chemicals in the diaper makes them smell. I have no idea if this is true or not.

But my biggest reason to do cloth diapers is the fact that in the end it will save us money. I don’t use coupons, so based on the average family that does not use coupons your spending somewhere around 18 dollars a week on a pack of diapers, I know that when I’d buy a 46 count at 18 dollars that pack would last us five days. Lets just say then that would be around 100 dollars a month, times that by two and half years, sometimes three. That is anywhere between 2,000 to 3,000 dollars. Cloth diapers, depending on how many you buy and what you buy you are looking at around 300-500 dollars from birth to potty training.

Below is my Newborn Stash. (I have a lot more diapers but for after the newborn stage.)

1 AIO- Kissaluv Newborn White
11 AIO – Bum Genius size XS white
1 AIO- osocozy size S (6-18 lbs) light green
6 FITTED – Snugglebottoms with Closures Size : NB (6-10 lbs)
6 FITTED- Snugglebottoms with Closures Size : Small (10-16 lbs)
12 PREFOLDS – OsoCozy Unbleached Prefold Cloth Diapers size 1
1 COVER- Thirsties Duo Wrap Snap, Blackbird, Size 1 (6-18 lbs)
1 COVER-Thirsties velcro XS white (6-12lbs)
1 COVER – Thirsties Duo Wrap Snap, HOneydew, Size 1 (6-18 lbs)
1 COVER- GroVia Hook and Loop Mod Flower (6-30 lbs)
1 COVER- Weehuggers Hook/Loop Closure Size 1 Baby Blooms (6-18 lbs)

I purchased quite a bit of these on Amazon so I used gift cards to purchase most of the diapers. I also save Visa or American express gift cards and used those to purchase diapers. So my actual out of pocket cost on my newborn stash was: $ 186. And 100 of that was just on the Bum Genius Newborn XS AIO (all in ones), But when we are done with them I can re-sell them and make back half of what I spent.

I know my sash is much smaller compared to others but I don’t want to go over board and buy a ton and not need them either.

Stay tuned for my “After Newborn Cloth Diaper Stash”.

 

Guest Post: 2012 Krispy Kreme Very Important Blogger Summit – Day 2 #KKVIB2012

When I was asked to join the Krispy Kreme Very Important Blogger Summit, I was honored to be asked but being 35 weeks pregnant I knew it would not be smart of me to travel. I thought this would be the perfect opportunity to have a fellow blogger go in my place!

I knew the perfect blogger too. Keonté from www.mommy2k.com was the perfect person, I mean she loves coffee and donuts too so of course I knew she would be perfect!

In case you didn’t see, she posted about day one on her blog at  2012 @KrispyKreme Very Important Blogger Summit – Day 1 #kkvib2012 | Mommy 2K  Below is her recap of Day Two!

All the donuts look yummy! Thank you so much Keonté for attending for MommyMandy!

 The “Crew” (photo courtesy of Krispy Kreme)
Day two of the Krispy Kreme Very Important Blogger Summit started at the factory.
We received more goodies…
…and were served a delicious breakfast.
I had no clue Krispy Kreme makes organic oatmeal. Did you?

We wasted no time getting the day started. There was an agenda and the crew at Krispy Kreme made sure we were going to stick with it. No one wanted us to miss out on the fun activities and information. Up first was Beverage Operations Manager, Branan Wagaman and  Corporate Chef, Ron Rupocinski.

We were given suggestions on which doughnuts to pair with a particular brew of coffee. I am not a huge hot coffee drinker, but I’m a bit obsessed with iced coffee. I have to say that I did understand the reasoning behind each pairing.  I learned that some coffee can have a floral, acidic, clean, spicy, and citrus taste to it. Here I was just drinking it without examining its true composition. Who knew?!

The day continued with several presenters. Each person had a unique story behind their connection to Krispy Kreme. I was fully engaged (even though I was tweeting) as I listened to the speakers share their passion for this company.

From left to right:

  • Dwayne Chambers, Senior Vice President and Chief Marketing Officer
  • Sam Fowler, Director of Fundraising
  • James (Jim) Morgan, Chief Executive Officer
  •  Kenneth May, President and Chief Operation Officer
  • Tanisha Randolph, R&D Product Development Scientist
  • Tim Heatherly, Training and OD Specialist

After experiencing their testimonies and learning some more behind-the-scenes information, I became a true Krispy Kreme fan. Each person poured their hearts out while exuding dedication, knowledge and commitment to their company. We were no longer just talking about doughnuts. We were talking about a way of life.

Lunch was served. A delicious spread of sandwiches and wraps from Salem Kitchen.

I love it when I get the opportunity to be ‘hands-on’ at an event. I want to know how it feels to be a part of the team. All of the bloggers were given the chance to create a doughnut and a specialty drink. This was nothing short of fun.

Here are my doughnut creations. I named them: LemonBerry, Princy & Dottie

We stirred up a bit of fun in kitchen making beverages as well. Let me tell you this, it’s a tough job. There are so many flavor combinations to come up with, it’s nearly impossible to choose just one. I normally like iced or blended drinks, so that it what I chose to create. It didn’t go so well. There is really a science to mixing flavors that compliment each other. Let’s just say that pomegranate, chai tea, and vanilla don’t get along well.

We had a blast. I was so grateful to have met such down-to-earth people who were nothing short of passionate about their role at Krispy Kreme.

The Bloggers – photo courtesy of Krispy Kreme

Besides eating delicious doughnuts and drinking coffee, there were a few key points that I took away from this summit. Here they are:

Madeline’s “S’mores” doughnut creation
  • Krispy Kreme doughnuts were never meant to be healthy, per se. They are a treat and an indulgence. They do not place a meal.
  • Krispy Kreme is for ages 3 to 93 (nearly everyone). The emotional demographic is their target, meaning, “How does it (a doughnut) make you feel?”
  • Krispy Kreme doughnuts don’t make people happy…they just work to keep them happy.
  • Krispy Kreme is built on simplicity. There is not a lot of paid marketing. Word of mouth is enough.

If you would like to stay connected to all things Krispy Kreme, here are a few sites to visit:

Krispy Kreme Doughnuts website: www.krispykreme.com
Krispy Kreme Doughnuts on Facebook : www.facebook.com/KrispyKreme
Krispy Kreme Doughnuts on Twitter: www.twitter.com/krispykreme
Krispy Kreme Doughnuts on YouTube: www.youtube.com/KrispyKremeDoughnuts
Krispy Kreme Doughnuts Hot Light App: locations.krispykreme.com/hotlightapp

For more photos of the 2012 Krispy Kreme Very Important Blogger Summit, check out their album on Facebook.

Disclosure: All accommodations and travel were paid for thanks to Krispy Kreme. The opinions, views, and actions are my own. Thanks again to Amanda for allowing me to attend this event in her place. It was a wonderful experience.

Wordless Wednesday: 35 Week Belly Comparison

I thought it would be fun to compare my baby bump with Sarah and Shelby! I am a little surprised at how much I look the same with both babies. I just hope this doesn’t mean Shelby will be 8 pounds, she definitely doesn’t feel feel big.

 

Oh and I was pregnant with Sarah over 6 years ago!

My Pinterest Finds

When I first learned about Pinterest I really had no idea how addicting it would be, nor some of the cool things I found! I have always been fascinated with decor, foods, and crafts so I couldn’t wait to jump on the band wagon and “pin” it out!

A few of the things I was first interested in was baby related or anything for the girls. When I saw a pin on a cute Hairbow Holder I couldn’t wait to make my own. And I did!

Below are a few of the things I have done using Pinterest!

What have you “pinned” and done!

 

Pregnancy 35 weeks

87% of my pregnancy is complete!

Last week of month 8! Then we start our 9th month, 2 weeks until full term! Although I have a feeling Shelby will wait until close to her due date to come!

At my 35 week appointment my midwife did say that Shelby had flipped! We will still do the ultrasound to confirm position and I am sure we will get an approximate of her weight. It is so exciting we are so close to holding little Missy in our arms!

Shelby has been getting the hiccups twice, sometimes three times a day and I know after she has been still for a while that she will be up moving around very soon… and she does.

At my appointment I was measuring 38 although I don’t feel like I have grown I do feel like SHE has grown. I still have not gained any weight this pregnancy which is shocking to me, but that just means I have done a great job eating healthy and keep my weight under control.

I finished my Birth Plan and can’t wait to share it with my midwife at my next appointment. We are down to weekly appointments now and get to do the lovely GBS next week.

I also packed the baby’s Birth Center bag this week. I’ll wait a bit longer to pack mine.

As I get closer to being “full term” I of course and getting so excited to have her. I have spent the last 32 weeks getting ready and getting to know her from her movements, and her little kicks and punches. I have spent all this time with her inside and everyone else has watched from the outside. I’m excited to share her with everyone…. But it’s bitter sweet. This is our last baby, so my last pregnancy. I know I will miss her moving around inside, but I wont miss the butt in my ribs and the body parts sticking out of my sides.

Your Baby in Week 35 of Pregnancy

Your baby is standing tall (so to speak) this week at about 20 inches and continues her steady weight gain (she’s about 5.5 pounds). While she won’t get much longer, she will continue to pack on the pounds — including large amounts of baby fat — right up ’til delivery day. Something else that’s moving at a mind-boggling pace these day: fetal brain development! There’s a lot going on inside that tiny head, which is, by the way, still soft to allow an easier exit through the birth canal.

Baby Nursery Advice/Suggestions

One of the last things I have to do with Shelby’s nursery is the crib. We already have her bedding and since it’s green and brown we are adding pink in to make it a little more girlie.  The crib bedding we have is the Green and Brown Damask from BabyBedding.com

I ordered two smaller Texas stars but I also want to do something cute for the wall or something hanging. Would the paper pom poms (from etsy) look ok with this bedding set? or would it be too busy because of the damask print?

OR should I do the Swatch Portraits?

 

What do you think I should do?

Pregnancy Week 34

Nothing new over the past week except for the fact that I can tell Shelby has grown. She gets the hiccups a few times a day now and moves constantly! My next midwife appointment is on Tuesday and I am anxious to find out what position Shelby is in.

Your Baby in Week 34 of Pregnancy

What’s new this week? Your baby is clocking in at five pounds and could be as tall as 20 inches by now, and the vernix (the white coating protecting your baby’s skin) is getting thicker. Her fat layers — which will help regulate her body temperature once she’s born — are filling her out, making her rounder. Her skin is also smoother than ever. Her central nervous system is maturing and her lungs are continuing to mature as well.  In other baby-related developments, those tiny fingernails have probably reached the tips of his fingers by now — and getting ready for that first postpartum manicure.

How is breastfeeding in public worse than this?

A few days ago I was skimming through a magazine, you know one that is very popular an gives you all the details in celebrity lives? I came across various pictures of celebrities with half their breasts showing.

I thought to myself, how the heck can breastfeeding in public be worse than seeing pictures of half naked celebrities?

How can these pictures be in magazines and be deemed as OK when a mom will get flamed for nursing her baby in public? It doesn’t make sense to me that a mom was recently told to leave a Target store because she was nursing her baby. Or my friend was asked to go nurse in the bathroom at a restaurant.

If women weren’t meant to nourish their child than why the heck would we have breasts, and milk? There is nothing wrong with moms feeding their baby. You wont see nursing moms just sitting there half named with all of their breasts exposed either.

Here you tell me, Here are some pictures of celebrities on the Red Carpet. They are showing over half their breasts and yet this is cool, and ok.

Ok, now look at these pictures of nursing moms. These are deemed offensive and rude?

Gosh, it seems to me that the celebrities are showing more breast than these moms nursing their babies. But sadly these nursing moms will be first to be asked to go cover up.

 

Happy 9th Birthday Samantha!

Yesterday we celebrated Samantha’s 9th birthday! I can not believe that my first born is NINE years old! She had a wonderful birthday and her party is this weekend.

I’m blessed with an angel,
Like heaven might send,
And I call her Sam,
My daughter and friend

 

Sam’s Birthday Pictures:

 

Pregnancy Week 33

I had my 33 week appointment this week. Everything was great, half a pound weight gain, great blood pressure and measured right on track…. but baby has decided to turn breech on us. So many things went running through my head, the word “breech” is scary to pregnant moms. We are basically told you must have a c-section with a breech baby.  The good thing we still have lots of time for her to flip head down and to avoid an external version.

Nothing new this past week. I don’t feel like my tummy has grown over the past few weeks, but I did notice a change in Shelby’s movements. I also know when she will be the most active during the day as well.

Your Baby in Week 33 of Pregnancy

Your baby is still gaining weight (about half a pound a week), and she could grow up to another full inch this week. With that much baby inside your uterus, your amniotic-fluid level has maxed out, which explains why some of her pokes and kicks feel pretty sharp these days. (There’s less fluid to cushion the blows.) Antibodies are being passed from you to your little one as she continues to develop her own fetal immune system, which will come in handy once she’s outside the womb and fending off all sorts of germs.

Ideas on Turning a Breech Baby

At 33 weeks when you hear the word “Breech” it can be quite scary. In fact when I heard that Shelby was breech this past week I cried. Even though I know she is small and still has a lot of room to move around I felt for a second my entire birth plan with her went out the door. In fact I can’t even picture my birth plan right now because my mind is focused on “what if she doesn’t flip back?”

She had been head down since about 24 weeks. I knew her little body parts. her kicks and tickles but now I feel like a deer stuck in headlights. I feel like my body is failing me and not allowing her to get in the right position.

My midwife was awesome and gave me so many different suggestions on helping get Shelby to flip back head down. We do have an ultrasound planned at 36 weeks to check her position and we might even try a version if she hasn’t flipped.

I plan to exhaust all my options, and discuss vaginal breech birth with my midwife as well. Although I am hoping these techniques below help her flip on her own.

Here are some suggestions I received on flipping a breech baby:

  • Relax! - Many times maternal fears lead to tense muscles (including those of the uterus), making the breech position the most comfortable one for baby, or the one in which it was stuck, and is then unable to move to vertex because of the confines of the uterus

Necessary for other turning attempts to work—no amount of turning will get the baby out of breech if the uterine muscles are just too tense

  •  External Cephalic Version - Basically, someone manually turns the baby head-down by pressing and pushing on the mom’s stomach.  This is typically done at 36+ weeks, and can be done during labor. There is the possibility of cord compression or some other cause of fetal distress, so it’s typically done in the hospital, in case a quick C-section needs to be done
  • Webster Technique - A chiropractic technique in which the body is manipulated to release stress on the mom’s pelvis and relax the uterus and ligaments
  • Breech Tilt - Mom lays on something like an ironing board (or several large pillows) with one end on the floor and the other end propped up on a couch, with her head on the floor side. Done three times a day for 10-15 minutes at a time. Best done on an empty stomach and when baby is active
  •  Music – Play nice relaxing music near your pelvis to induce baby to come closer to hear better. Or play loud raucous music near your fundus so baby will move away
  • Shine a light near your pelvis, or even between your legs
  • Have the father talk to the baby, low on the belly, and tell him/her to move
  • Hypnotherapy (helps to relax)
  •  Lots and lots and lots of pelvic rocking
  • Elephant walking (walking on hands and feet, to get your rear-end up as high as possible)
  •  Acupressure
  • Drink plenty of fluids – This may help especially if low amniotic fluid is making not enough room for baby to move freely enough to turn
  • Posture - Keep your belly open by keeping spine straight and tall.  Sit “Indian style”, leaning slightly forward. Watch out for “bucket seats,” recliners, and other types of seats that tip you slightly back
  • Moxibustion (a Chinese herb that is rolled into a stick, then the end is lit and put on various acupressure points of your body)
  • An ice pack or frozen bag of peas where the baby’s head is, to encourage it to move